A back scratcher Damp sponge Let your mind go wickedly wild. Assemble all the textures and place them in a basket. Blindfold your partner with a silk tie. Begin by massaging your partner with an item from the basket. Without talking or making a sound, massage his body and let him guess what is touching his skin. Painting for Pleasure The couple that paints together stays together — or at the very least enjoys an artistic afternoon with body paints.